May I ask what times (you could do by forum clock, if not wish to give timezone) you are usually playing, then I can try and set when I'm on arround those times.
I never put my pm on, so it won't help much having me added, really, I'm not sure how often Timo has his set to anything other than friends, but can't hurt to try..
I do occasionally have pm on, on one of my alts "Reet is Love", but that's not a reliable way of contacting me; I am in the two 'Death Erebus chats (cc and fc, both), whenever I'm on, so that would be the best way to find me, Timo also.
I wish you luck, and hope to see you soon !
(Though Idm if Ali 'takes' you, as he did have first call :p and its much the same, who you go to, though I think he's better than me at it: Certainly a better player. :o. )